Tuesday, August 10, 2010

WHY IS IT "AS WOMEN WE FEEL LIKE WE HAVE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR WITH SOMEBODY TO CALL OUR OWN TO VALIDATE US?

In my opinion: I will speak the Truth because it seems like you want me to give it to you: (Disclaimer: Whatever your beliefs may be, I am referring to a story I read in a Book and this is not about religion). In the story of Creation, God the Divine Universal Being created man and woman. He/She/It created woman from the man's rib in order for man to have a companion and a mate. Woman was created in order to assist her mate in certain endeavors and also for the sake of reproduction. From the beginning of time women have innately lived by this role. It’s the role that I speak of, the help mate, the birth mate, the nurturer, the lover and etcetera. Something within her instinctively yearns to play this role in whatever ways, even if they are played out minutely (pronounced my-nute-ly not minute-ly). One can argue that not all women feel that way (no offense cousin) but even a woman’s body is geared for this role. Ever heard of the biological clock? Now matter how we attempt to ignore it, it exists. So I said all of that to say this. If a woman is not playing the role, the whole reason for her creation, she might have a tendency at times to feel a little inadequate, like she is not being productive enough. She has an innate desire to love, to birth, to give, to need, to want, to yearn for another’s love or touch, to feel needed and etcetera. Its not about not having a mate, it’s about not wearing the shoes that were solely created just for her.
LT

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