Know Who You Are!

New Year Advice: What say you Tiffany Michellé Speaks?

If you had to advise anyone using one particular statement for 2013, what would it be?

The statement that comes to my mind over and over is: Know Who You Are!

In life we are confronted with various experiences and those instances (most of the time) determine our future. The decision you make today dictates your tomorrow. Whether in relationships, careers, parenting, finances or whatever realm you are dealing with; it is so vital for you to know who you are. More importantly this is essential because when you know who you are, you are very conscious of who you are not!

Being self aware gives you a certain sense of courage, a heightened level of confidence and an effective amount of faith. When you understand who you are and what your abilities are, you are not afraid to say no whenever you see fit. You are not afraid to step out of the box and take risks. You are not afraid to ask for a promotion or start your own business. You have no worries about being single or finding a suitable mate after you decide to kick your ex to the curb!

So I say in 2013, from start to finish, decide and understand who you are, walk in your self awareness and create your year around it; grow into your essence and feel good about yourself and the decisions you make! A courageous, confident and faith-filled mentality makes for a promising reality!

I’m doing Me in 2013!

Until next time and with much L-O-V-E,

Tiffany Michellé

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Be Determined!

Today I say ~ Never allow fear to cause you to miss out on new opportunities! Sometimes we may hesitate trying out new things because we are afraid we won't know what we're doing. We are scared that we might fail. Well no one knows how to do everything and most people don't perfect anything immediately. There has to be a first time and you won't get good at anything if you refuse to even try. Step out in your strength and be courageous! You never know where your determination may lead you!

Until next time and with much L-o-v-e,

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Blue Skies

You seem to be experiencing gray daze. You've been wondering how to find the blue sky beyond those storm clouds. No matter how bad things seem to be, it is important that you never lose your heightened sense of visual capability. Have you thought about calling upon your inner self, the one that has the ability to see things your eyes cannot see. Your inner self has the miraculous ability to conceptualize things in order to make them be. Where you view only problems, the spirit within you sees an opportunity to use its gift of creativity. It is your imagination that will save you from this state of misery. The for certain being that reminds you that everything begins with a dream.

Until next time and with much Love,
Tiffany Michellè

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Never depend on other people for the motivation in regard to pursuing your dreams because when no ones around to inspire you & everyone who was there before falls by the wayside, when the support you once had is no more; you have to have something within yourself that keeps you going. It's got to be YOU...Tiffany Michellè

Naked...Vulnerable...Embracing the Unknown...Despite It All

Love is the most frightening feeling ever. Its the scariest experience in the world especially when you give your best to a person, you share your love with a person, you have faith in a person and they hurt you by not appreciating everything you are and everything you are not. The healing process and the course of re-establishing trust is a terrifying transition when you’re not completely sure if a person is capable of change. Regardless of that, you love them too much to let them go and you know they truly couldn’t have understood how much you loved them in the first place.

When we hurt, we hurt for every time we weren't appreciated. We hurt for every time we were cheated on and we were scared to trust again. We hurt for every time we were lied to and we were scared to listen again. We hurt for every time we believed in a person more than they believed in themselves and we were scared to believe again. We hurt for every time we gave more than someone else cared to and we were scared to give again. We hurt for every time our feelings were disregarded and we were scared to feel again. We hurt for every relationship where we wore the pants and we weren't the man. For every time we couldn't let go because we were afraid everything would fall apart and we were scared to submit. We hurt for every time our eyes observed them adore another, hurt masked as jealousy.

We hurt every time someone said they would but didn’t. We hurt for every time someone said they could but couldn’t. We hurt for every time a person said they wouldn’t but did. We hurt for every time we felt alone, were surrounded by people but were alone. We hurt for every tear we’ve cried that no one witnessed. We hurt for every time we gave of ourselves but emotions were deficient. We hurt for every time we were quiet but yelling within the very depths of a scorned soul; scared and hurt when that loveless expression is in your eyes that we've seen before. Hurt when that wounding tone is in your voice that you promised we'd hear no more.

In order to understand the pain, to comprehend our actions and the sentiments of our present, you must comprehend the disdained ghosts of our past ~ In order to assist us in healing in our future.

Tiffany Carr © 2011

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Knowing Thyself...

How do we know when we have reached a vital point of understanding? When we can listen to a person expressing viewpoints that are totally opposite of our own, feel no negative emotion and walk away having learned something; we have truly mastered the craft of Self Awareness.

Giving up the need to be right will relieve us from so much stress and it has the great ability to turn arguments into discussions. That is one thing that the world could benefit from, more effective discussions. Besides that it just feels better and isn’t that what life is about?

Happy Monday! Peace be with all of you…

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