For the life of me, I cannot figure why I keep getting approached by either married men or men who are unmarried but supposedly dating one woman keep approaching me with flirtatious intentions. It's like I have a stamp on my forehead that states, "Hey come talk to me, I like other women's sloppy seconds." I mean really the only time being someone's mistress has any value is when being someone's mistress has a monetary value. (Just kidding, ok no I'm not lol.)
But seriously what is it about a person that makes them step outside their relationship on a regular basis to seek things from other people? Why is one person not enough?
When a person consistently steps outside of themselves to get some kind of gain from another person, do they feel as if they are lacking something that they cannot get from themselves? It's an insecurity. These are the people that think and live by the notion that it takes someone else to make them happy. They think that their thirst can only be quenched by other people fulfilling it. They are "the takers."
Being a taker's "giver" will only suffice if the giver is also either insecure and thinks it takes to have a taker to be happy or the giver is ignorant of the taker's other relationship and is in the bliss state and therefore hears no evil, sees no evil or the giver is an uncover taker but the 1st taker is unaware that the giver has an ulterior motive, for example a monetary motive, wink wink.
This game can go many rounds for some people but once a person become realized and understands what they want out of life and they yearn true love, quick fixes no longer tantalize their taste buds. They desire a flavor they can savor, something real and lifetime long. They understand that their time and space are much too precious, their existence is of value and they are not just a piece of @$$. So to the taker they can profess... "Thank you but no thank you. In regard to your hand me downs, I'll pass. I have no issues waiting for something that is promised to last."
Until next time...
But seriously what is it about a person that makes them step outside their relationship on a regular basis to seek things from other people? Why is one person not enough?
When a person consistently steps outside of themselves to get some kind of gain from another person, do they feel as if they are lacking something that they cannot get from themselves? It's an insecurity. These are the people that think and live by the notion that it takes someone else to make them happy. They think that their thirst can only be quenched by other people fulfilling it. They are "the takers."
Being a taker's "giver" will only suffice if the giver is also either insecure and thinks it takes to have a taker to be happy or the giver is ignorant of the taker's other relationship and is in the bliss state and therefore hears no evil, sees no evil or the giver is an uncover taker but the 1st taker is unaware that the giver has an ulterior motive, for example a monetary motive, wink wink.
This game can go many rounds for some people but once a person become realized and understands what they want out of life and they yearn true love, quick fixes no longer tantalize their taste buds. They desire a flavor they can savor, something real and lifetime long. They understand that their time and space are much too precious, their existence is of value and they are not just a piece of @$$. So to the taker they can profess... "Thank you but no thank you. In regard to your hand me downs, I'll pass. I have no issues waiting for something that is promised to last."
Until next time...
2 comments:
No hand me downs!!! Like it! I'll pass too! ;-)
Thank you Anonymously : )
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